The other day I was reflecting on words that reflect my own concept of compassionate conscience - a way of approach an empathic ethic that seeks to be benevolent from a spirit of union with all life and an innate appreciation for the feelings, worth and sacredness of other individuals, groups, ecosystems and so forth throughout creation.
Guilt is really low vibrational, I never thought about that. I've been distancing myself from someone that I like a lot because they always give me guilt trips about not hanging out enough. It makes me feel bad that no matter how much I tell them I like them, it's never enough. But I also can't be constantly trying to reassure someone else.
That is rough! I have had to walk away from a lot of people I really like because I am so sensitive and often I am aware of their "stuff" before they are, which is a tricky situation. I wonder if your friend is someone you could talk with openly about it? I was thinking there is a Frog and Toad story where Frog wants some time away from Toad and explains it in a really loving way - like how he wants to be alone so he can feel the warm sunshine and his own thoughts and think about how he loves Toad and is so happy that Toad is his very best friend - or something like that. If your friend isn't ready to understand your boundaries, you may have to walk away and sending them blessings for their happiness.
I have had to walk away from a number of people that I liked and were really good people who just couldn’t get my boundaries. I understand and I wish you both peace and to be aligned! When you honor you, in the end you honor the other too. They may or may not thank you this life, but it can only serve them for you to live your truth as long as you do it in love. <3 I know it’s hard! xx
Guilt is really low vibrational, I never thought about that. I've been distancing myself from someone that I like a lot because they always give me guilt trips about not hanging out enough. It makes me feel bad that no matter how much I tell them I like them, it's never enough. But I also can't be constantly trying to reassure someone else.
That is rough! I have had to walk away from a lot of people I really like because I am so sensitive and often I am aware of their "stuff" before they are, which is a tricky situation. I wonder if your friend is someone you could talk with openly about it? I was thinking there is a Frog and Toad story where Frog wants some time away from Toad and explains it in a really loving way - like how he wants to be alone so he can feel the warm sunshine and his own thoughts and think about how he loves Toad and is so happy that Toad is his very best friend - or something like that. If your friend isn't ready to understand your boundaries, you may have to walk away and sending them blessings for their happiness.
yes unfortunately I have told her and she is unable to respect boundaries. it’s just not a good fit energetically
I have had to walk away from a number of people that I liked and were really good people who just couldn’t get my boundaries. I understand and I wish you both peace and to be aligned! When you honor you, in the end you honor the other too. They may or may not thank you this life, but it can only serve them for you to live your truth as long as you do it in love. <3 I know it’s hard! xx